Hospitality, Faith, and Optimism are some of the predominant characteristics that Filipinos are known for. But have you ever wondered why we feel the same despite our differences? Related by blood or not, the surge of familiarity that flows in our veins makes us connected as if we’re each other’s halves. From battles to triumphs, we share the pride as one. This invisible string that ties us dates back to an ancient bond of our ancestors- Pakikipagkapwa.
By definition, Pakikipagkapwa is a Filipino term that means treating others with respect and acknowledging a shared humanity and identity. It is a core value that emphasizes empathy, interconnectedness, and the idea that every person has value, extending beyond mere self-centeredness to include a sense of community and an obligation to one's fellow human beings.
In a deeper context, Prof. Jun De Leon, (from the University of the Philippines and former chairman of National Commission of Culture and the Art and Historian) explains “Filipinos believe that they have no separate existence; they’re all one- that’s the meaning of Kapwa: Kapwa means the other person is yourself, every person's responsibility is not only to himself, but others. That is a sharing culture: Kapwa is the basis of this because in an individualistic culture, where people are confined to their physical selves, you don’t see yourself connected to others, whereas you think only of the material world, and we are not connected physically. Thus, your responsibility is only to yourself. Because connectedness has to do with spiritual belief that the spirit of god connects us. That’s why one of the core values of the Filipino is Kapwa.”
A concrete example of this concept is the “jeepney ride experience”. As you make your way inside, not only do you excuse yourself to look for a spot to sit in, but you also acknowledge their presence. That’s why when you’re in a jeepney, what happens? The driver is very far from you, you are at the back of the jeepney, and you would like to pay. You just give your money to the next person, and that money will travel all the way, changing hands until it reaches the driver. And vice versa happens in returning the fare exchange. This series of events encapsulates the essence of what it’s like to interact with others, not by helping strangers, but as a natural linkage of the same kind or “fellow”.
Thus, on every occasion, we always try to socialize and connect as our way of establishing a common ground, where we can meet halfway and bridge the gap of indifference and understanding. This also addresses the clamouring of our fellowmen, “Uy Philippines!” when our country is mentioned in random videos, news, or when someone claims to come from the same descent as ours. Because our relationship transcends the confines of our geography and race. So is our patriotism and support.
No wall stands tall, nor distance too long for a bond that stays strong through the test of time. They say home is where you belong, but for us, it is the surge of familiarity that flows in our veins, making us feel welcomed despite being strangers. In our hearts, deeply rooted, growing grounded.
Written by Kycer Agnes, Insight PH
Kycer Agnes, Insight PH is a dedicated campus journalist and contributor. Their insightful writing sparks meaningful conversations and keeps the community informed.
